Hope Is On The Horizon Magazine
Breaking The Silence About Domestic Violence
The True Life Story Of: Alecia Marie Trombly Darin
AKA
Rev. Mother Theresa Darin
Oh, the hell I lived was too much for anyone. By all rights I should have gone insane. However I did not, for Our Father in Heaven sent "His" Son, Jesus, to get me when I was in that cellar. Jesus would hold me in "His" arms and before I would know it I was safe with "Him" in Heaven. Please understand I was a child, I had no understanding when I first started experiencing going to Heaven. I like any child at first, thought I was making it up, my way of dealing with the abuse by running away to something that was better and gave me Peace, love, comfort, and understanding. You know what I mean? How children have an imaginary friend's sometimes? But as time went on dear Sisters and Brothers this was not the case, which I was to understand.
I continued to go home to Heaven. While I went home to heaven I was being taught about who I was, what I was, and how I was, to receive what I now have as knowledge. While I was still going through the abuse at home here on earth I was told that I would soon be free of the life. Jesus said "He had a new life in store for me." Well, I did not understand so, through my tears I said to Jesus, please I need you to help me. Jesus put his loving arms around me and said: "My child you will soon know how your life will be made anew. Please know that I love you and that I am with you always." That is when I knew I would soon learn how Jesus was going to help me get out of this hell that I lived in.
While at a local small beach where I took my earthly sisters and brother, I met a little child who had fallen. He was crying because of a scrape on his knee looking for his mother. I asked him where she was after putting a band aid on him. He pointed to women sitting on a blanket with three other little boys. Taking him to her, I asked if she was missing him. The Mother of the little boy said, "Oh sweetie!" to her child, "what did you do?" Seeing the band aid I told her what happened she thanked me and I went to tend to my responsibilities.
Now to make the picture start to come together, not remembering what I was told by Jesus, about a free life from the hell I lived in at the time I was to not only get to know this lady but; she became my mother here on earth. Time went on and so did the abuse.
I then began to see this lady with her children everyday at the beach. She had four boys, who were small, but very polite children. As time went on we became friends to a point, as I did not trust anyone fully. Things were always hard at home as far as basic necessities so I would do odd jobs babysitting, ironing, or small yard work. One day Angel, was what she was called, asked if I would like to earn a little money babysitting? I told her I would be very happy to, as I needed to make enough money for Christmas this year. This of course was far from the truth. I needed to buy food, clothes, soap and many other needs for my Sisters and Brother. So I took the job and I became her children's babysitter.
One day she came to where I lived to pick me up to baby-sit her children. When she walked into my house she saw my blood mother throw me down a flight of stairs, pull my hair while yelling for me to get the house cleaned. I was not well at the time of this incident as I was hemorrhaging from a problem I had with a disease call endometriosis.
Needless to say Angel found out the truth of what was going on. I tried to keep the truth from her by telling her that I was clumsy. She always would ask how I got the bruise or burn or cut or whatever. She would question, but then the truth came out. Angel then took my hand she told my blood mother that she was not going to stand by to watch this and she was taking me to the hospital. Angel then told my blood mother that after she had taken care of me she would then come back and clean her house. This did not go over well as you all can imagine. Some rough words were said and Angel did just as she said. After being treated at the hospital, Angel said she was going to take me back to her house. I got upset and I told her you have to take me home. Angel then took my hand and said, "my dear child, I can not let you go back. They know that I know it would not be what Jesus would want me to do. You of all people know that." She then said, "let me help you. I can help if you only let me." I told her, "I am so scared." "I know," Angel said," but we can do this with the help of Jesus. We can get your freedom from this abuse." "Please," she said in a pleading voice, "let Jesus and I help you." Then I started to cry because I was so scared. In-fact I was so scared that I poured all of the pain out of my heart on Angel's shoulder, as she held me and told me it would be all right.
The next steps lead to her going to the courts so that she could adopt me. I was 15 years of age. I was finally free from abuse that Jesus promised to free me from. My life now was new. I have a Mother that showers me with the true love of Jesus and still till this day loves me does so. It's 52 years later and I am grateful to Jesus for my Mother who I love very much. Yes, Jesus made all this possible in my life. For without "Him" I would never be here today. Without Jesus, I truly believe that I would have committed suicide and gone to hell. Satan would have done what he set out to do destroy my life. You see dear Sisters and Brothers, that's how Satan works. He finds a way to break you down piece by piece until the pieces can't be put back together until he has you just where he wants you. Please don't let Satan do this to you. Don't let him take you down the road to hell. There is hope! Listen to me my Sisters and Brothers, you too, can have a life of Blessings just like I was given. All you have to do is trust in Jesus! Please do not wait till it is to late! Take Jesus' hand like I did and you too, can have what I have been blessed with.
Now, I'm not saying that you won't have everyday problems because you will. Satan will keep on trying to take you down, but this time you have the Love of Jesus in those times of trouble. This time you are never alone as Jesus is always with you, even when you feel you are in your darkest hours, Jesus will be there. I know this, as life went on I had my ups and downs, especially as I walked as a new Christian. I was just learning how to walk with Jesus, but as I walked, I learned He feed me with "His" Word and I began to grow.
Yes, Satan still was trying all the while I was being feed. In-fact he has not stopped even today. Satan has tried so hard to shake my faith in Jesus that he has put me in a wheelchair for the rest of my life. I was in an accident in April of 1988 and due to a milligram test I was injected with an IVP dye not once but twice because the first injection the needle broke into my spinal column and another injection was done. The reaction of this being done paralyzed me completely from my neck down leaving me a quadriplegic. Through many tests I was told that this left me with a diagnoses called Gillium-Barrie`-Syndrome along with a neuromuscular disease called Myopathy it is like ALS a family of MD. But you know what? He only made my faith stronger. I have Jesus to give me the strength to face whatever comes my way. Jesus never said once when I accepted "Him" that I would not face problems. On the contrary, Jesus said that I would be ridiculed for "His" namesake. Jesus said the closer you are to "Him", the more Satan will try to make you do sinful things. Jesus told me point blank if I thought my life would be free of problems that I would be fooling myself. The one thing I never would have to worry about would be that I would never face those problems alone. Jesus loves me and "He" is always with me, no matter what Satan tries to do. All you have to do is trust in Jesus for "He" is the only way to true salvation my dear ones. He is the only one who can make your life anew.
I am so blessed to say I have Jesus in my life. He has given me more to be blessed with then I believed possible. I would never have had the chance to serve "Him" as a humble servant. I have received blessings that are too many to put into words. "Oh how I Love Jesus" for giving me all that he has blessed me with today. Among His blessing, one of them included the blessing of being married to the most beautiful man in the world. Oh! What a blessing to be able to serve the one whom died for me so that I might have eternal Life. How I thank Jesus for giving me all that I have been blessed with!
Please my dear Sisters and Brothers don't give up Heaven for Hell. Eternity is an awful long time. I pray you will take Jesus' hand today. May God bless you all.
Love and Blessings in Jesus;
Alecia Marie Trombly Darin
Aka
Rev. Mother Theresa Darin/RSPM
the Rose of Sharon Prayer Ministry
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To my big sister in Christ, Rev. Mother Theresa,
I remember the first time that I read your testimony
and the joy and healing that Jesus brought to my heart...
I touch and agree with you, that this message
will bring forth much joy and healing to those
that are in or coming out of abusive relationships.
Father, we thank You for sending those that are hurting,
those that are broken, those that are looking for love in all the wrong places
Meet them today, shine Your light and Your Love upon them
and the heal the brokenhearted, in Jesus name Amen!
Love your little sister,
Stacey
Hope Is On The Horizon
